
By J.E. Nickerson | Wise Thinkers Help Desk
Picture this: You’ve poured yourself into this project. You’ve stayed up late writing, editing, designing, posting—and it feels like no one’s watching. It’s natural to wonder: Does this even matter?
I’ve been there so many times over the years. But I didn’t stay there. And here’s how you can move past discouragement and keep staying true to your vision and voice.
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1. You’re Not Broken—You’re Building Something Invisible
Sometimes people can’t see what’s right in front of them. You show up to your writing sessions with heart and intention. Maybe it’s just a paragraph, or a single sentence burning in your soul. Maybe it’s a quick rewrite that only you know needed fixing.
Building isn’t always grand or dramatic. Everyone remembers the ancient pyramids or the Colosseum—but how many people celebrate the small bridge or turnpike quietly making their commute easier?
Just because others can’t see what you’re building today doesn’t mean it isn’t important.
Creation often feels invisible at first—especially when you’re ahead of what others can grasp. Many great works started as visions only one person could see. You’re building something that isn’t fully real to anyone else yet.
That’s not failure. That’s vision.
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2. It Hurts When Loved Ones Don’t Get It
Sometimes the hardest part isn’t the low numbers—it’s hearing “What is this even for?” from someone you care about. Maybe they don’t understand creative work. Maybe they’re projecting their own fears onto your courage.
You don’t need permission to follow your calling. And you’re not selfish for trying to create something meaningful with your life.
(Yes, you’re allowed to feel hurt. But you’re also allowed to protect your fire.)
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3. The Numbers Lie—At First
Analytics can’t measure heart. The algorithm doesn’t know how hard you worked. The views don’t reflect how many people needed your words but haven’t found them yet.
Don’t measure your worth by numbers.
Measure by what you created that didn’t exist yesterday.
That’s progress.
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4. How to Keep Going When You’re Running on Empty
• Return to your why. Who are you writing for? Even if it’s just one person. Even if it’s just you.
• Celebrate finished, not famous. Done pages matter more than perfect ones.
• Take breaks without shame. Rest doesn’t mean failure. It means you’re honoring your work like it matters. I love to write daily, but I also take breaks—sometimes for a few hours, sometimes for a full day. Rest helps me reconnect to my “why.”
• Find proof in your own history. Look at what you’ve created. You’re not starting from scratch—you’re standing on your body of work. Reflecting on past books, articles, or poems helps anchor you. You’ve been here before. You’ve made it through. Trust that.
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5. You Are Not Alone
Other writers feel this too. Many who seem “successful” now once wrote for no one. The difference? They kept going.
Remember: when a seed goes into the ground, it doesn’t worry about being seen. It doesn’t compete with other plants. It simply grows.
As writers, our job is to create and connect—with inspiration, clarity, and comfort. That kind of work requires faith in yourself before anyone else believes in you.
Keep writing. Don’t give up. Keep reaching out.
Your audience will appreciate your dedication—even if the people closest to you don’t see the value yet.
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📌 Gentle Reminder:
Your work matters, even if it’s quiet today.
You’re not just writing content.
You’re building a legacy.
Suggested posts
Learn how to connect with your “why” your reason for writing even when no one else sees it. Read the article How to Find Your “Why” as a Writer and Creator (And Why It Matters)
Find more inspiration for your journey of writing at the Wise Thinkers Help Desk and the Help Desk Resources, Guides & Downloads
Need even more encouragement for your daily life outside of writing? 📚 Explore My Books. Find devotionals, children’s books and your guidebook to publishing your best seller online and in physical edition! — get it here.
📚 And if you’re new here, I’m J.E. Nickerson — faith based author and inspirational storyteller. You can check out my books here or follow me on YouTube for more inspiration and encouragement on this writing life.
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